You be the judges. Fair enough I think? Pros and cons, you decide. I won't comment further.
Any that is good befalls you is from Allah.
1. Prophet sallallaahu'alaihi wa sallam said:
It is not a people astray after getting guidance for them, but because
too much arguing.
[Reported by Ahmad and Tirmidhi]
2. Abu Umamah Al-Bahili (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said,
"I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners."
[reported by Abu Dawud]
Wallaahu'alam bis sowab....